just joshing cont’d

I know that those things do not sound like much, especially since I had it massively oversimplified back to me, but they are very difficult to find.

It’s kind of like Alanis Morissette’s “21 Things…” I suppose

Do you derive joy when someone else succeeds?
Do you not play dirty when engaged in competition?
Do you have a big intellectual capacity but know
That it alone does not equate to wisdom?
Do you see everything as an illusion
But enjoy it even though you are not of it?
Are you both masculine and feminine, politically aware, and don’t believe in capital punishment?

These are 21 things that I want in a lover
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer

Do you derive joy from diving in and seeing
That loving someone can actually feel like freedom?
Are you funny á la self-deprecating, like adventure, and have many formed opinions?

These are 21 things that I want in a lover
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer
I figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matter
These are 21 things I choose to choose in a lover

I’m in no hurry; I could wait forever
I’m in no rush cause I like being solo
There are no worries and certainly no pressure In the meantime I’ll live like there’s no tomorrow

Are you uninhibited in bed, more than three times a week, up for being experimental?
Are you athletic?
Are you thriving in a job that helps your brother?
Are you not addicted?

These are 21 things that I want in a lover
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer
I figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matter
These are 21 things I choose to choose in a lover

But I guess I would also say:

I prefer someone who likes the Arts

I would prefer someone with a college education.

I don’t want a “sugar daddy,” but since I make pennies…. someone who can at least pay for an occasional movie and pizza.

I want someone who knows me, all of me, even the sides I try not to show.

Someone who will unhesitatingly, and un-creepily, love my girls.

Must love animals.

And doesn’t mind cooking at least occasionally.

 

 

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